The San Francisco Museum of Modern Art which, as you may know, opened its new
building last January. It has incorporated state of the art multi-media study
centers in the new design. John Weber, curator of education or Peter Samis,
curator of interactive technologies (not sure of that title) would be your
contacts there.
The Hood Museum of Art at Dartmouth College also has some fine hands-on study
rooms that that they use for education programming. Lesley Wellman is the
head of education there. Good luck.