To Richard Perry and Henry Grunder:
In response to your "witty" thoughts on this topic

>>And yes, I know, this is all light and in good fun, not a >>serious
disagreement . . .

As a woman, this is a serious issue to me because it represents the subtle
effect of sexism and the old boy's network in museums. I have frequently
received letters addressed Gentlemen and am always offended by this.
Addressing letters as such assumes that women do not hold important positions
within museums and devalues their important role in the field. I was taught
to always address letters to: Ladies and Gentlemen or To Whom It May Concern.
I think these are appropriate, avoid making any kinds of assumptions, and are
effective in getting the point across.

Sincerely,
Larisa Overmier