Sometimes a knowledge of human foibles allows us to turn an otherwise embarrassi ng situation to our advantage and avoid shaming the visitors. There wasn't much we could do to "save" the visitors to City of Refuge NHP who, after hearing that under the kapu system men and women couldn't eat together, etc., wo uld stand up and ask "How did the Hawaiians carry on their race if they couldn't eat together?" We could, however, make a joke about the Hawaiians not having discovered a new p rinciple of buoyancy BEFORE folks had a chance to ask if the canoe on the beach (built of an exotic wood that was attached by carpenter bees) was built without a bottom! -- Tom Vaughan \_ Cultural The Waggin' Tongue \_ Resource <[log in to unmask]> \_ Management, 11795 Road 39.2 \_ Interpretation, Mancos, CO 81328 USA \_ Planning, & (970) 533-1215 \_ Training