We've heard it before, but What Students Need to Know: Graduate Training in Museum Studies, from AAM and by Marjorie Schwarzer, is an invaluable resource for trying to figure out a good fit between graduate programs, you, your goals, and your geographical limitations.
AAM also has several other books that can help a person figure out where they need to be and what the job possibilities are in the field.
And just know: There are no shortcuts. Each person has to decide on his or her own path themselves. Take all advice with several grains of salt.
-Mary Kidwell
Happy JFKU Student, because I took no shortcuts and researched the heck out of grad programs appropriate for me... :-)