Christine,
 
A couple of years ago, I had a similar incident and consulted the NC Attorney General's Office.  The attorney advised me that the donor signed a legally binding agreement and therefore was not entitled to get her painting back. 
 
As for the exchange business, refuse that as well.  You would need to follow your procedures for deaccessioning, and I am assuming that when an item is deaccessioned, you either transfer it to another public institution or sell it at public auction.
 
That being said, I also understand being part of a government agency and that sometimes we are overruled.  If that happens, write a memo to the file stating your reasons for the objecting to this transaction.
 
 
Martha Battle Jackson
Registrar
North Carolina Historic Sites
4620 Mail Service Center
Raleigh, NC  27699-4620
(919) 733-7862, ext. 232; Fax: (919) 733-9515
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----- Original Message -----
From: "Christine Dwyer" <[log in to unmask]>
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Sent: Wednesday, June 20, 2001 3:04 PM
Subject: "I want it back" -- what to do?

> Hello All,
>
> Your advice is sought.  An individual donated an object to us in 1990 and
> signed a "Deed of Gift" form.  The form had all the usual language about
> transfer of ownership, the museum's right to display (or not) the object at
> its discretion, to deaccession the object, etc.  Also included in the
> conditions was a 90 day period in which the donor could change his mind and
> reclaim his donation.
>
> The individual visited the museum recently, and inquired about his donation.
> The donor was informed that the object was currently in storage, as we
> haven't the space to display everything.  The donor was upset and stated
> that he wants his piece back unless we agree to put it on display --
> something I will not do for obvious reasons.
>
> I feel that the contract should stand -- we have not violated any conditions
> (which were clearly stated) and the piece is being cared for.  However, I
> fear that the individual will try to go over my head by approaching local
> officials regarding his request (we are a county department).  To further
> muddy the issue, the individual has offered to make a donation in exchange
> for the piece -- which makes me very nervous.
>
> I feel that the only solution is to refuse, but that decision may be taken
> away from me if these officials get involved.  Any suggestions?
>
> Christine M. Dwyer
> Stanly County Museum & Historic Preservation Commission
> 245 East Main Street, Albemarle, NC  28001 USA
> Tel: 704/ 986-3777         Fax: 704/ 986-3778
>
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